Bob Costas, Gun Control, Jason Whitlock, Jovan Belcher

Under the Gun


Following the horrific shootings in Aurora, Colorado this past summer, when a man who believed he was the Joker busted into a movie theater during The Dark Knight Rises and killed 12 people while injuring 59 others, there was an open call for more gun control.
Then last weekend, after Kansas City Chiefs linebacker Jovan Belcher killed his girlfriend, then himself, NBC sports anchor Bob Costas spoke out on needing more gun control, following respected sportswriter Jason Whitlock’s column regarding the need for more restrictions and getting the guns off the street.
I respect these points of view and their merit. And I don’t entirely disagree with any of the statements. 

But they don’t go deep enough. 

We don’t go deep enough. We’re not a very reflective bunch.
The truth is, as we’ve heard before, is that guns don’t kill people – people kill people.
Guns may be a tool, the same as a knife, or bare hands. People are often horrified because of the damage guns inflict. They are loud. It is messy. It’s sudden and powerful. But the end result of shooting a gun is the same as using a bow and arrow, a knife, or one’s own hands.
So we do ourselves a great disservice when we break down these tragedies to simply espousing the need for more gun control, more regulation and restrictions. The Second Amendment isn’t the problem. It may be something that needs addressed, but it is not the problem.
People are the problem.
To be fair, what we very may well need is more analysis on people before they are allowed to purchase and possess handguns, automatic weapons and shotguns. But again, even that is short sighted. The simple fact is that people can and will fake their way through these tests. We may call a murderer crazy, but they aren’t necessarily all stupid. Masking and hiding tendencies is generally how we get to the point of the interview with a neighbor where so-and-so “was the last person they would suspect” of doing something like this.
Did you know that Americans are 40 percent more likely to be killed by guns as citizens of other countries like England and Canada? 40 percent! The easy response is that’s because of all the readily available handguns. Get rid of the guns altogether and you fix the problem. 
No. No. No. You can do that all you want and all you are doing is duct taping the problem. You can take away the weapon or the tool, but you cannot remove the intent and the penchant for violence.
This is America’s biggest fault – we’re too rapid with our responses. It’s a fast-food society, too quick to determine actual and effective cause and solution. Massive deficit? Tax the rich! People shooting each other? Take away the guns! 
We don’t research, we don’t think and process information or theorize. We’re too busy to critically think through our issues. Band-aid solutions are abound. We want the best outcome with the fastest response. In the absence of genuine, well-thought solutions, any old idea will do.
How often at work are you in meetings? I know a lot of people that spend most of their day meeting with co-workers about action items and to do lists and then go on to the next meeting. In a variety of different industries. And there is less time to do the actual work, to think, to devise creative solutions. 
We’ve removed thinking and pontificating from our daily lives. And we apply this logic – or lack thereof – to other problems in our culture all the time.
And that is exactly what we’re doing when we speak so vaguely about guns and gun control. We turn to the violent nature of guns instead of examining the violent nature of people. 
It’s easy to blame the weapon – it cannot defend itself or rationalize an argument. You cannot arrest a gun, or put it on trial or declare it insane. You cannot interview it, you cannot assess its logic. It’s a static tool – it’s used. It doesn’t think, have feeling, emotion, practice a religion or process outcomes. But it can be blamed because it’s there.
Simply put, I urge us to look deeper if we want to know why we’re a more murderous culture and society than the rest of this planet.
Not everyone is prepared, or sane, or cares – about the outcome when they use guns. They are carrying a weapon to defend themselves, so they think and say, and often turn to the device when most angry, challenged or upset.
This isn’t a new thing for Americans. And while this could be a racial or class issue, it’s really an American issue to a far greater extent than other places in the world.
Remember the duel between Alexander Hamilton and Aaron Burr? We fought a revolution with muskets when we didn’t like the King’s taxes. We didn’t use guns to throw tea into the Boston Harbor – an act of violence. But that was OK, because it was justified, right?
We turned to violence in 1776. Less than a hundred years later, we got violent with each other over a Northern industrial economy and a Southern farming economy. Brother versus brother. We turned guns on each other because we were offended and threatened. 
We still do so today.
We are a violent society and, frankly, always have been. We can justify which actions require the use of weapons, automatic rifles and handguns. We can openly question why someone needs a machine gun, a glock or an AK-47 if they aren’t serving in the military and stationed somewhere. That’s all fine. But we will always fail to get to the root of the problem.
The problem is us. We are the ones who pull the trigger. We are the ones who turn to guns and violence in fits of rage and anger.
We’re also not strict enough with the laws currently in place. It’s illegal for convicted felons to carry handguns, yet many still find a way to get them. Why? Guns weren’t used on 9/11, violence and terror and fear were.
As I wrote earlier this week, to discuss these topics after the fact is too late. When someone’s already pulled the trigger or has a gun to their head is the wrong time to debate whether or not the gun control laws are strong enough. 
The presence of a gun increases chances of violence that already exists in the first place, but doesn’t remove the chance altogether. But that still misses the larger point: the existence of violence is more detrimental than the existence of the gun.
Many argue that guns exacerbate the situation; they remove time for thought, regret, reaction. There can be no denying that. The rate of deaths, drive-bys, domestic violence ending in fatality would probably lower if we removed guns completely – but you’re not digging up the weed by the root. You’re not fixing it by masking it. Domestic violence exists with or without handguns. Lack of a gun may prevent death, but the violence is still there.
You see, this has to be a societal change. Is America ready for that? Are we ready for that discussion?
Because we can’t have massive gun control reform and then have 10 million people sit down and enjoy an MMA fight, The Sopranos, The Wire or buy the latest edition of Hitman. We cannot celebrate the values depicted in The Patriot, then argue that guns shouldn’t be in our midst. It’s counter-intuitive.
On Sunday, Costas said, “If Jovan Belcher didn’t posses a gun, he and Kasandra Perkins would both be alive today.”
We simply do not know that to be true. We can assume that, since the statistics show it would (obviously) greatly enhance their chances of being alive. But that’s just not deep enough analysis. It doesn’t remove the intent to do harm to one another.
Certainly, the guns made it quicker, deadlier, more violent and definitive. So let’s just band-aid it, wrap a bow around it and proclaim that guns and gun control are the crux of the issue.
No – guns are part of the issue. Guns may be big part of the problem because of their impersonal nature, availability and quick finality.
But they are not the problem.
We are.
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Charlie Sheen, ESPN, Jason Whitlock, Lawrence Taylor, NFL, Pete Rose

Crime and (Lack of) Punishment

Buried in the sports pages and difficult to find within hours of being posted on the ESPN, Fox Sports and SI websites, there is a story out there that no one wants to address.
Former New York Giants star Lawrence Taylor is now a registered sex offender.
No one, not even Jason Whitlock, seems willing to tackle this nasty news and offer an opinion on Taylor or the seedy underbelly of humanity in which Taylor has long dwelled.
While I am disappointed in the current voices of sports media for not touching this story with a 10-foot pole, I get it. I understand why. Who wants to go there?
The whole situation is disgusting, impure and just plain gross. Just reading Taylor’s comments on the matter leave you in dire need of a shower. You’d need turpentine for your eyes.
But if we don’t discuss this, if it’s not addressed, then we’re doing a great disservice.
Or maybe I just need to get it off my chest.
Life and sports aren’t always happy. Every day is not a video montage of “One Shining Moment.” It’s not always feel good stories.
I get it. During a time of optimism, with baseball on the brink of another season, the beginning of spring and the NCAA Tournament providing smiles and buzzer beaters (as well as a distraction from this silly NFL labor dispute), the last thing we want to talk about is a washed up, former pro athlete who has been given probation for the use of an underage prostitute.
But it must be said: Lawrence Taylor is sick, depraved and should be in jail.
It’s widely known that Taylor used narcotics throughout his career and was suspended several times by the NFL for drug use. It’s also widely know that Taylor really ramped up this activity after his playing career was over, spending thousands of dollars a day on cocaine and basically living in seclusion surrounded by other drug users.
Taylor has admitted to using prostitutes before, mainly between 1994-2001, but last year he was indicted on charges of third degree statutory rape, sexual misconduct and patronizing a 16-year-old prostitute. He recently pled guilty and avoided jail time, receiving six years’ probation.
But he made no apologies.
Taylor told Fox News’ Shepard Smith that he blamed the institution of prostitution for ending up with an underage girl, but never took responsibility for himself.
“I’m not the cause of prostitution,” Taylor said. “And sometimes I make mistakes and I may go out there. And I didn’t pick her up on no playground. She wasn’t hiding behind the school bus or getting off a school bus. This was a working girl that came to my room.”
Just the fact he had to distinguish her as someone who wasn’t getting off a school bus gives me the willies. But a working girl? Yeah, LT, she’s a real 9-5er with deadlines and a briefcase.
Need that turpentine yet?
Whether directly or indirectly, Taylor is one of the causes of prostitution. As long as there are people like Taylor willing to pay for sex, then there will be prostitution.
Taylor said, “I’m not looking for a relationship. Hey, sometimes I look for some company. It’s all clean. I don’t have to worry about your feelings. It’s all clean.”
Actually, Mr. Taylor – it’s anything but clean.
It’s sick and seedy and disgusting.
Regardless of age – 16 or 19 – Taylor has something wrong with him.
This isn’t Charlie Sheen crazy funny, with cute little catch phrases.
It’s just sick and twisted.
The fact that Taylor is indifferent to the whole thing is perhaps most frightening.
“I guess you call it a crime,” he said on Tuesday. “It’s one of those crimes you don’t think about. You never think you’re gonna get busted because everyone does it until you get busted, and then it’s more embarrassing than anything else.”
A crime you don’t think about? No, it’s a crime we don’t think about because most of us don’t engage in that kind of reprehensible activity.
Taylor’s in some different, alternate reality – probably brought on by years of drug use and an out of control, narcissistic and toxic personality that thinks he’s somehow on another level.
He once said, “For me, crazy as it sounds, there is a real relationship between wild, reckless abandon off the field and being that way on the field.”
No, LT, there’s not a relationship. At all.
Taylor created one in his own mind to justify his actions. People do that all the time, some sort of reasoning mechanism to try and convince themselves their actions are not misguided.
Prostitution is a serious crime. Everyone, contrary to his belief, doesn’t do it. And it should be more than embarrassing, it’s should be shameful.
It should be a harsher sentence that six years’ probation.
Taylor is an empty man with an empty soul. Perhaps he’s always been that way.
After the Giants won the Super Bowl in January of 1987, he said, “Everyone was so excited, but by then I felt deflated. I’d won every award, had my best season, finally won the Super Bowl. I was on top of the world, right? So what could be next? Nothing. The thrill is the chase to get to the top. Every week the excitement builds and builds and builds, and then when you’re finally there and the game is over…nothing.”
For people like Taylor, empty people, there is nothing. No joy, no sense of contentment, even during a peak accomplishment.
And so he has continually chased “The Chase” all his life. He’s filled it with prostitution and drugs, searching for the big build, the thrill of the chase.
What he should feel now is the cold bars of prison shutting on his face.
How can you plead guilty to third degree statutory rape and not be in jail? How is it we honor and even remotely respect people like this? How is this man in the Hall of Fame?
He should be first ballot Hall of Shame.
We mock and despise Pete Rose for betting on baseball, but allow Taylor into his sport’s ultimate honor with open arms?
Taylor talks about feeling empty and clearly tries to fill that void by less than noble or honorable means. Thanks to his actions,  we’re the ones left feeling empty and sad. Empty and sad that this emotionless, shell of a man could make millions of dollars in the NFL, in endorsements and movies to feed his actions and his own hubris while hard working people strive just to make it to the next day.
While innocent people die of starvation, of natural disasters – like the tsunami we just saw destroy a part of the globe – Taylor somehow avoids jail time so he can continue to do his best to erase human decency and morality, all while increasing its depravity.
He’s been found guilty of tax evasion, been arrested numerous times for narcotics and prostitution, and now has agreed to a plea bargain of two misdemeanors: sexual misconduct and underage prostitution.
Misdemeanors? Are you kidding me?
It’s safe to say we might have figured out what Taylor has really been chasing all these years: Prison.
It’s only right we fulfill that desire for him, to fill that need that burns deep in his empty heart.
Taylor’s earned it, right? He’s worked hard to achieve it, so I say we give him the same feeling he had after the Super Bowl – that empty feeling of nothing but hard time alone in a prison cell.
There’s no crime in wanting that for you, is there Mr. Taylor?
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